Perceptions

Well, as I live and learn. A friend has been in my observation ungrateful, sneaky, avoiding, hurtful, judgmental, and not wishing to be around me. We just had a conversation and he said almost the same things about me. This is a strange one. I don't ever remember having this happen before.

Well first, the Gratitude List:
• Sobriety
• the Program
• Jim
• Cassidy
• Kwanzaa
• Pastors Alika and Ralph Galloway
• Aaron
• Steven
• Larry Krause
• Damien
• Timmy
• Laura and Fred White
• The Lattin Family, and all the 14 children, owners of Wit's End County Store and Bakery, Beaver Bay, MN
• Steve H
• Duane
• Victor
• Dustin
• Ko and Lo
• Michael and Debbie
• Technology
• Ben Speiser
• Jason
• Tom Scholla
• the condo
• John Boyer
• The Gang of Knitters around the Yarn Garage
• The Volkswagen Phaeton - Christa
• Brandon Randolph
• Larry Eckhart
• Bob Moore
• Margo
• Jo
• Polly
• Dennis Johnston
• the Fiddle
• Dan Chouinard
• Sima Shumilovsky
• Rob
• Tony Maas
• Eric
• Virginia
• The Meintsmas
• Bill
• Noel
• Eric and Lucinda
• Nathan and Jessica
• Nick
• Earl Lindner
• Kevin Jackson
• Christopher Raymond
• Chris J
• Gary
• Leo
• Scott
• Dick
• Hank
• Tom S
• music
• Justin
• Eric
• Clem
• Christian
• Blaine
• Sasha
• James
• Casey
• Marc J
• Tim K
• Dustin
• Geo
• Ross M
• Joseph S.
• Joseph Perry
• Christof
• Michelle
• Max
• Dontray

I am not exactly sure where to turn here.

Well I called my sponsor and he said, "Be who you are." I am not adjusting my program for him. He may be paranoid from the use he has done. Give him some space but don't alter who you are because he is being accusatory and somewhat rejecting. I am going to try and do some things with him, just hanging out, and continue to invite him to do things. I feel a lot better after talking it over with my sponsor.